一个发人深省的故事——爱与罚

USED vs LOVED While a man was polishing his new car,his  4 yr old son picked up a stone and  scratched lines on the side of the car. In  anger, the man took the child's hand and  hit it many times not realizing he was  using a wrench. At the hospital, the child lost all his  fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father..... with  painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my  fingers grow back?'  The man was so hurt and speechless; he  went back to his car and kicked it a  lot of times. Devastated by his own actions......  sitting in front of that car he looked at  the scratches;  The child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'. The next day that man committed suicide. .  Anger and Love have no limits; choose the  latter to have a beautiful, lovely life  & remember this:  Things are to be used and people are to be  loved.The problem in today's world is that  people are used while things are loved. Let's try always to keep this thought in  mind:  Things are to be used,People are to be loved. Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character; Watch your character; it becomes your  destiny. I'm glad a friend forwarded this to me as  a reminder.. I hope you have a good day  no matter what problems you may face ,it's  the only day you'll have before it's over.  当一个男人给自己新买的轿车抛光时  年仅四岁的儿子用石头在他车身上划了几道花痕  盛怒之下，男人抓起孩子的手狠狠地打了无数下，  而他没有意识到自己手里正握着扳手。  医院里，孩子因为粉碎性骨折失去了所有的指头。  当孩子再次见到爸爸，强忍疼痛紧蹙着额头的他问道：“爸爸，我的手指什么时候长回来？”  这个男人无比痛心，他已经说不出话来  他回到自己的车，对着车一阵猛踹  他对自己的行为极度懊悔悲愤不已  坐在车前盖他看到那些划痕  那是几个字：“爸爸我爱你”  第二天，这个男人自杀了。  怒和爱有时候没有界限。 选择后者才能拥有美好快乐的人生。 请记住：东西是被利用的而人是被爱的。  然而现实却恰恰相反，人被利用而东西被爱了。  让我们把这种思维根植于心底——东西是被利用的，人是被爱的。  正视你的想法，它将升华你的语言  正视你的语言，它将引导你的行动  正视你的行动，它将形成你的习惯  正视你的习惯，它将成为你的性格  正视你的性格，它将成就你的命运                                        原文《USED vs LOVED》                                               吴必忠  译